i.e. could I (theoretically, if this got a lot worse) spend BTC at Satoshidice, count on them not being validated very fast because Satoshidice transactions are ignored by a proportion of miners, and spend the same BTC somewhere else?
I'm just an interested observer at this point, I have no BTC and I'm not into online gambling.
However, eventually the network will include one of your transactions in the longest chain, and the other will be discarded. So the double-spend will not be permanent.
The longest chain? Why would length be the determining factor?
If someone double spends a bitcoin, it could saved by one recipient and quickly be spent many times by another. The most fair way is probably to take the first spend.
Regardless, anyone ignoring a block of a transactions seems unsustainable long term if bitcoin is going to have any credibility. Seems like those with an interest in bitcoin should avoid even considering this.
This is one of the more disturbing defaults I've heard of with bitcoin.