Have you read TAOUP? The entire Unix philosophy hinges around the shell, since the shell is the tool that lets you glue different pieces together. The shell is not outdated.
If you live entirely within one language ecosystem, then you may be tempted to consider the shell an afterthought, and make all services available via API calls instead. But this is inefficient, slows down development, reduces flexibility and limits the capabilities of your programs. This fallacy is old and certainly is not "modern". See TAOUP for details; it explains this far better than I ever could.
This is really old-fashioned thinking. The people who have been in this industry for 10+ years all grew up without computers - and thus had to memorize all of the flags, obscure shell commands, and weird regular expression. What was taught in school back then was to do things perfectly the first time, because CPU cycles were expensive, and bugs were time consuming.
The generation that graduated from college about 2 years ago is the first one that had universal access to a search engine since they knew how to use a computer. This generation (and all future ones for the rest of time) sees memorizing things like this as more of a waste of mental space. What is taught in Universities now is problem solving, research, and larger concepts. There is very little straight memorization, and almost zero programming by hand/whiteboard programming. No current college grad will be able to write a shell script without reference material, but every college grab should be able to write any simple script in less than 5 minutes with Google.
Memorisation isn't the issue. Knowing the tools available and their options is. That comes with study. Unix command line is a boon for problem solving and experimentation, just go and read Jon Bentley's _Programming Pearls_. One can't Google for what one doesn't realise can be done.
This is, however, the bread and butter of shell programming.
> ... "tr --delete --complement"...
And, likewise, I'm not sure of the meaning of --delete and --complement, but I do understand "tr -dc". I'd have to look up --delete and --complement to work out what they're the equivalent of.