> have never once seen someone pushing to correct that imbalance.

Conservative men rights advocates find such proposition insulting to men. It is not a manly men job.

Men in those positions are mocked by supposedly pro-male groups

> If I knew a dude who freaked out and yelled/sobbed several times a month over something inane like where to get dinner I would drop them immediately.

Why are you dating someone like that? Genuine question. I dont know ANY woman that cries that often. Not a single one.

Maybe be wise and break up.