I agree about the salaries being inflated. When I mention wars, it's not because of the war itself or needing to go to war, but it's more the consequences that it brings, like costs of living rising, etc.

About the family, I really mean your primary family, wife and kids. The friends part is more to put the question to everyone and not only those who have families.

English is not my primary language, so sorry if the question was badly formulated.