ok. so if its fairness to protect an outgroup by costing an in group, how would you label protecting both an ingroup and an outgroup ?

Two instances of the same principle

thanks for helping understand your perspective , all the best

You're welcome. It's great that your questions came from a genuine desire of understanding. Though to be honest, that interaction - a sequence of short direct questions without further context - seemed to me like you were testing me, trying to lead me into a contradiction. I assumed less-than-good faith, I'm glad I was mistaken.

contradicting yourself would be a choice on your part , nobody else could choose that for u or lead u there as u put it