yall have no idea what is fire under your ass is. It is a honest but ruthless understanding of society you get as a kid, understanding that you will be on your own (already or when you grow up), and your parents wont (can't) help (feed) you when you grow up. Esp true for men (women can marry up). You realize you must accomplish things, become valuable to society, and earn your keep.

It is not about being sold a lie about grades/degree but those are important too.

And just because it worked out for people like me (you?) who never needed a degree, doesn't mean that's the way for most people.