Re:Facebook’s dark matter: “secret” groups
by tedunangst on Saturday December 29, 2012 @02:14AM
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I have never before heard that twitter posts are supposed to be witty. In any case, most of my friends' facebook posts would qualify, too. (you can also unfollow without unfriending people on facebook.)
1. Pseudonyms (or first-names only) are allowed and widely used. So there's less expectation that your Twitter social life has to match your offline social life.
2. The asymmetric follow model. You can follow someone without them following you. You can unfollow someone and then change your mind and follow again without them even noticing.
Combined, the dynamic of Twitter is that you follow based on interest, whereas on Facebook you friend based on acquaintanceship. That produces a pressure to be interesting.
I'm not a particularly heavy user of either Twitter or Facebook, so please weigh in if anyone thinks I got this wrong. But this is why they feel different to me.