> how we raise kids are massively out of alignment with how human biology relates to reality.

The series I cited argues for this, not against it. I think her point was probably actually grounded in a reality of male behavior that was specific for her time. So I read it more as a "they need to have empathy by growing up how I grew up". She was also not a biologist or a researcher in education, although many may have taken what she said as gospel. But that's celebrity. I'm more curious about her ties to the CIA...