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Re:Things I wish someone had told me about life after college by quit on Saturday December 15, 2012 @09:45PM (#4927129)
Or maybe you should stop trying so hard to meet people and make friends and just be
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Re:Things I wish someone had told me about life after college by sown on Sunday December 16, 2012 @12:50AM (#4927470)
What do you mean?

If I don't try then I just stay at home.

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Re:Things I wish someone had told me about life after college by quit on Monday December 24, 2012 @05:33PM (#4964370)
I mean that, especially for introverts, trying hard to make friends usually is counterproductive. If instead you start finding things you actually enjoy and start enjoying them (forgetting there's people around) it's easier to engage in productive interactions
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Re:Things I wish someone had told me about life after college by sown on Wednesday December 26, 2012 @02:25AM (#4968519)
> If instead you start finding things you actually enjoy and start enjoying them (forgetting there's people around) it's easier to engage in productive interactions

I've tried that but I didn't see the same phenomena. But thanks for the suggestion. I also find that I don't really enjoy anything nowadays.

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