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Am unable to think deeply when alone

Is it normal being unable to be able to think deeply or think through alone. I am still quite good when in conversations, including with AI. How common is this?
( 3 comments | 2 points | on HN )
Re:Am unable to think deeply when alone by yepyoukno on Wednesday June 17, 2026 @12:16PM (#48572594)
Very common. It’s like writers block. You have to train your mind through it. In ten years you will have no problems what so ever. That is if you force yourself through those ten years in between.

That’s how long it takes to master something you are naturally resistant to.

Start with a journal, preferably hand written. Just sit down every morning, first thing, and any other time of day you can make it a ritual, and start writing.

Just write and write and write at first, and gradually structure for whatever you want to actually get done.

It will make you a better thinker, all around. Overcoming personal barriers always does, whether it is “getting started”, socializing, public speaking, whatever.

Just make getting to it your ritual and over time it becomes natural.

Re:Am unable to think deeply when alone by AnimalMuppet on Wednesday June 17, 2026 @11:55AM (#48572253)
Maybe you're a verbal processor? When you're alone, do you talk aloud? If you don't, consider trying it.
Re:Am unable to think deeply when alone by davydm on Wednesday June 17, 2026 @12:03PM (#48572391)
and if you're still struggling, try a little weed - i have so many thoughts, a lot conversationally with myself, in my head, when a little high (: