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Re:Posting a notice on your Facebook wall will not protect y... by jhuckestein on Monday November 26, 2012 @01:17PM (#4833119)
Is it necessary for friends to "be an advantage" to you besides just being your friends? When you spend a lot of time in places like HN, you're at risk of succumbing to some kind of extremist lifestyle where you have to rationalize even who your friends are or use dumbbells while you're brushing your teeth because it saves time. This is not necessary.

I have friends from way back that can't relate to what I'm doing and will probably never "help" me in any way. However, when I go back home, I greatly enjoy spending time with them and for me that enough.

Re:Posting a notice on your Facebook wall will not protect y... by sillysaurus on Monday November 26, 2012 @03:06PM (#4833705)
Is it necessary for friends to "be an advantage" to you besides just being your friends?

No, not at at all. I just have no friends from my early days. (Ruthlessly bullied throughout school. Midwest children had no tolerance for programming geeks circa 2000.)

One of the primary ways people can find "you specifically" is through Facebook, and the other way is through LinkedIn. That's all I meant by "you need Facebook".

Recruiters, for example. I've gotten way more random LinkedIn offers that have led to jobs than I ever would've guessed. (~7 offers, 2 jobs. But of course the "offers" are just "offers to interview"; still, that's something.)

Re:Posting a notice on your Facebook wall will not protect y... by kaybe on Monday November 26, 2012 @01:27PM (#4833158)
In my eyes, that's also a kind of help.

Also, it is good for open-mindedness when not all people we hang out with come from the same group.