I agree there is an apparent tone of misandry in some of the rhetoric of the left but the actual beliefs you cite are (with the exception of a few) things men on the right say about other men.
You know who run on identity politics? It was the republicans.
> A lot of men aren't really right-wing, rather, they're in left-wing exile.
A lot of men are left. And a lot of men are explicitly openly right wing.
Somehow, there is no talking point about men exiting conservativism because of active push for the above look at masculinity. The opposition toward the above view is supposed to manifest exclusively by moving toward people who super actively promote it.
Right: Men need to perform and they are good people
Gee, why are men voting right? Can you figure it out?
I mean this as an encouragement to fix leftism, not to vote for the other guys.
If anything, the left-wing promotes men to be vulnerable and seek help if they need it. At least where I'm from that's the case. I'm stumped how different our views are on this.
Right-wing incompetence is winning, because to the voters something on the left is even worse than incompetence.
It may be counterintuitive, but there is a lot of anti white male messaging on the extreme left that essentially promotes and encourages male conservatism through exclusion of positive views of men. A lot of men aren't really right-wing, rather, they're in left-wing exile.
Leftist beliefs include the following:
* Men do not need external validation, they should rely exclusively on internal validation
* Supporting men undermines women's support
* Men must be independent and must get themselves out of their own mess
* Men must win or they are losers
* Male winners deserve everything they can get their hands on, while losers deserve nothing
* Male winners are only bad because they are male
* Male losers are twice as bad, because they are male and losers
* If the male loser steps out of line, punch down as hard as you can
These things aren't necessarily said out loud, but they're strongly implied if you read the room.
These deeply conservative undertones simultaneously drive people away from leftwing extremism, but the regular leftwingers often don't even notice the undertones and downplay the problem and push you further out, which means being in "center of left" exile becomes deeply unappealing.
Meanwhile being in the "right of center" exile means you can get away with as little conservatism as you like. Basically the left is giving men extremely tough lessons in conservatism and is instead looking for an external cause on the other side that doesn't really exist.