Re:AI Slop Is Killing Online Communities
by miladyincontrol on Friday May 08, 2026 @07:41PM
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By large I absolutely agree with te premise, but find too that sometimes you find someone akin to a hammer looking for nails, starts to label anyone a missing stair over the slightest incompatibility. Oft combines with a formation of a faultless in-group and a perpetual need for new villains.
Its a rare thing, I dont mean to suggest its common. But it is always awkward to see when some people learn such language just to turn it into a cudgel.
>sometimes you find someone akin to a hammer looking for nails, starts to label anyone a missing stair over the slightest incompatibility.
I 100% agree. This is why it is important for leaders not to rely on the judgement of a single person, but on the behavior of perception of the community as a whole (which I tried to mention as a caveat in my comment).
On the other hand, if you have an overeager moderator with too much discretionary power... well that's a different community problem, and it is going to go wrong in multiple ways, not just this one :(
However, a sign that someone needs to be removed is if you find that the community writ-large treats them as a Missing Stair [0]. If they have refused direct requests from community moderators/leaders to address their behavior, or regressed after a short period of improvement, and if most of the community is required to do work to actively manage their toxicity, that is not sustainable.
It is a mistake I once made in managing a community. There was a person who was able to present as "pleasant enough" when the situation called for it, but who was often toxic when something didn't go perfectly (especially in a 1-on-1 setting). I allowed them to stay for too long, and the community as a whole suffered from the ambient sense of tension and hostility.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Missing_stair