Its easy to say anything. Doing the correct thing is not always easy. I think your last statement is woefully outdated. The current zeitgeist is lack of agency. Its like collectively many of us have shifted from an internal to an external locus of control. This is due to a variety of reasons, a big one of which is the internet empowering people to make themselves feel insignificant due to unhealthy scale. I'd write a book if I continued, but that's the just of it, I suppose.