Re:I'm 34. Here's 34 things I wish I knew at 21
by kibbul4 on Thursday January 22, 2026 @09:20AM
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Firstly, she ain't gonna let you hit...
Secondly, nobody is going to read that and decide not to rape someone. Zero people are ever having their mind changed by what you wrote.
Thirdly, and it's even more taboo but you really need to hear it: women lie. A lot. Claiming sexual assault is (wrongly) believed by many to be a complete escape from all accountability for whatever choices and behaviours they voluntarily engaged in. It's not. I know you're not a fool, please know that you have no moral obligation to believe such claims or enable their behaviour.
The gendered language probably didn't help. You would have really riled up the crowd if you had specifically admonished women for infidelity, divorce, emotional abuse, financial deception, paternity fraud, etc.
Secondly, nobody is going to read that and decide not to rape someone. Zero people are ever having their mind changed by what you wrote.
Thirdly, and it's even more taboo but you really need to hear it: women lie. A lot. Claiming sexual assault is (wrongly) believed by many to be a complete escape from all accountability for whatever choices and behaviours they voluntarily engaged in. It's not. I know you're not a fool, please know that you have no moral obligation to believe such claims or enable their behaviour.
The gendered language probably didn't help. You would have really riled up the crowd if you had specifically admonished women for infidelity, divorce, emotional abuse, financial deception, paternity fraud, etc.