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Re:If you don't design your career, someone else will (2014) by zwnow on Monday December 22, 2025 @11:43AM (#46355699)
I'm trying to avoid community unfortunately. I was never really accepted anywhere, whether is be online spaces or irl and I am not the person to socialize and do stuff with people. Also don't want to rely on people or having people rely on me.
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Re:If you don't design your career, someone else will (2014) by cardanome on Monday December 22, 2025 @12:53PM (#46356590)
> I was never really accepted anywhere

I felt the same way before I got my diagnosis for my neurodivergency. I mean I still do but it got better because I know now why I get rejected and are better at finding people I can fit in with.

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