There is a huge difference between

1. “Son, here is $5000 to cover your rent, utilities and food for one month while you look for another job in San Francisco” and keep doing that for 6 months

And

2. “We can’t afford to help you pay your rent so you are going to have to break your lease and come back home to East MiddleOfNowhere Nebraska. You might be able to get a job at “Big John’s Fish Tackle and WordPress Shop” and maintain the local church’s blog.

I knew my parents would be able to do a cheaper version of #1 s/Atlanta/SFO and s/Small town South GA/Nebraska.

I had a friend who I graduated with who was the oldest of three or four kids and whose mom was a single mother who couldn’t afford to subsidize him.

I was able to move to Atlanta and get a lower paying job as a computer operator based on an internship the year before because I knew that’s where I needed to be. My parents did subsidize me for the first year while I hustled my way to a better job through networking. I couldn’t have done that in small town South GA.

He ended up moving to a slight bigger small town on the border of GA and Alabama that paid more, lower cost of living and lower opportunities

There’s no way you didn’t know anyone whose parents couldn’t put them up for a year. There are lots of people who go to college who’s parents don’t have 30k spending money

Putting up your son on the couch is not expensive.

And then they are in the MiddleOfNowhere Nebraska and having to maybe move from where the jobs are and where they can network. It is expensive to subsidize their living away from home.

Go to the books section in Amazon and search for "how to start a business with no money"

Yes, and usually the only people who make money doing it are the people selling the books…

If all you do is look for failure, it's easy to find.

Food and healthcare are expensive though. Supporting a young adult includes these things too.