Don't be a scary old guy: My 40s survival strategy with charm

Re:Don't be a scary old guy: My 40s survival strategy with c... by natebc on Thursday November 27, 2025 @12:03PM (#46071112)

I am, and don't ... but that still doesn't mean it doesn't take effort. There's way more to it than smiling and not being a complete tool.

How long has it been since you called your long lost best friend and caught up? Did you go to his brothers funeral? Check in on him after his divorce? A year after his divorce? 5?

It takes effort and is far from elementary no matter how much rizz you have.

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Re:Don't be a scary old guy: My 40s survival strategy with c... by bcjdjsndon on Friday November 28, 2025 @06:45AM (#46077784)

I agree it's effort it's just not hard..... for a 40 year old, remember.

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Re:Don't be a scary old guy: My 40s survival strategy with c... by pseudalopex on Wednesday December 03, 2025 @05:29PM (#46141145)

It is for many empirically.

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