Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked
by nuancebydefault on Friday October 03, 2025 @03:40PM
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Recently a lady was telling me that she wasn't taken seriously. When a male colleague proposed something that she proposed years ago, people suddenly accepted it, she said. I explained her about 'implicit pecking order' in company culture and 'he is taller'. Then she said "yeah i'm short". Then I said yes but you are perfect the way you are, and I think she appreciated that.
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Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked
by watwut on Saturday October 04, 2025 @03:16PM
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Basically the company is sexist anf that is ok?
Re:Social anxiety isn't about being liked
by nuancebydefault on Saturday October 04, 2025 @03:40PM
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There's bias in _every_ company, every culture even. The bias is towards age, race, height, beauty, weight, as well as gender. I live in one of the most inclusive countries in the world and work for a very inclusive company. Still, pecking order and biases exist. I think it is human nature and maybe it is fine even.