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Re:New Mexico is first state in US to offer universal child ... by yardstick on Tuesday September 09, 2025 @11:43AM (#45183618)
Kids are social and like playing and learning from other kids. Daycare lets them do just that. It’s a great thing and every toddler I’ve met who wasn’t in daycare was behind in something. Especially verbal skills.

Plus daycare allows women to continue their career progression. It’s soo important. Not every woman wants to end their career as a mother to a young kid. Daycare enables successful women to thrive and still have families.

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Re:New Mexico is first state in US to offer universal child ... by garciasn on Tuesday September 09, 2025 @11:59AM (#45183890)
Your anecdote is just that. All of it is highly dependent on the child, their environment, and the 'educator'. Please don't make assumptions based on your limited exposure; it's not helpful.
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Re:New Mexico is first state in US to offer universal child ... by Spivak on Tuesday September 09, 2025 @12:09PM (#45184072)
Your "it depends" argument is that some kids aren't social, don't like playing with other kids, are better off not having exposure to social interaction with peers and practice talking.

If this is the criticism then it's a glowing endorsement of daycare and school.

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Re:New Mexico is first state in US to offer universal child ... by garciasn on Tuesday September 09, 2025 @12:13PM (#45184130)
No; it depends on the 'educator'. A daycare that doesn't have kids interacting in a positive way could be just as detrimental as a parent that doesn't socialize their children externally to the home.
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Re:New Mexico is first state in US to offer universal child ... by declan_roberts on Tuesday September 09, 2025 @12:26PM (#45184347)
"Why do you want a thriving career?"

"So I can provide for my family"

"Why do you want to provide for your family?"

"So my children can have happy and fulfilling lives"

"What makes your young children feel happy?"

"Spending time with me"

A strong parent-child relationship is the biggest determination of life-long child happiness even into old age.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4784487/

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Re:New Mexico is first state in US to offer universal child ... by yardstick on Wednesday September 10, 2025 @09:14PM (#45206476)
You can have a strong parent-child relationship while still using daycare.

Also people work due to other reasons unrelated to providing for their family. Individuals are allowed to have lives outside their kids.

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