Re:You don't want to hire "the best engineers"
by Loudergood on Tuesday September 02, 2025 @01:55PM
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>These are "I'm thinking out loud" phrases.
Not just that, it's also "I want to know what your opinion and reasoning is on this as well" This has often led to some of the most productive conversations of my career.
Re:You don't want to hire "the best engineers"
by godelski on Tuesday September 02, 2025 @04:30PM
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> This has often led to some of the most productive conversations of my career.
Same! Often the conversations I've learned the most from are about topics I already think I know a fair amount about but someone mentions some seemingly tiny detail that ends up changing everything. These conversations tend to stick with you long after they're held, as you have to keep updating so many other beliefs lolWhich is to say, collaboration is an incredible tool. You have a lot to gain by knowing others know more than you about certain subjects. This can even come from a very junior person. It's less common, but sometimes they ask a question that they often think are dumb but throws a wrench in everything. (Juniors, speak up. Worst case seniors should use those as teaching moments. Best case, you look like a genius. If seniors get mad, start applying elsewhere (unless you really are holding up a lot of conversations))
People often conflate phrases like "but what about", "how do we handle", "okay, but" or so on as "no". But these are not "no" phrases by engineers. These are "I'm thinking out loud" phrases.
If you surround yourself with yesmen you've surrounded yourself with people who don't care about the company, they just care about their own survival within it. Unless you're perfect, you need people that are unafraid to challenge management when they think management is wrong. You need people to be able to make mistakes because hindsight is a million times clearer than foresight.