The reason I asked here is mainly because for my usage, the RaspberryPI is unbalanced towards graphical usage, where as I want to see less graphical power and more cpu power and more memory instead of flash.

All these projects seem to want to either move your desktop to it or make it a media center.

I just want it to be a SSH and webserver that can handle occasional spikes of usage, like for instance private music streaming. For that I now have a Dell with duo xeon processor, each with 2 cores, which is pure overkill, and it makes noise too.