"Pushing them in a productive direction" could be something like "You've been spending a lot of time here. Don't you think you should do something else?"
But for all the people not on the fence, you're denying them responsibility for their own choices. I can't help but feel that your stated agreement with me that individuals should be responsible for themselves is empty if you support measures that take all choice away from them.
Re:Ask HN: Is Hacker News a Waste of Time?
by randallsquared on Saturday January 24, 2009 @12:16AM
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I don't really support measures that take away choices (I'm against having the site closed for X hours per day, for example), but I do support arranging choices and defaults such that the goals of the arranger are furthered.
Or, to lift a more succinct phrase, "lead us not into temptation". ;)