I used to think like this, but over the past decade and a half they have gotten a lot more performant and usable and the speed with which you can develop using them is just unmatched by writing raw SQL. Again, I say this as someone who used to be very much team just write SQL and even created a quasi-ORM that allowed me to write all the queries by hand but returned model instances that could have methods as a sort of in-between solution. I still routinely use raw SQL but only when it is actually necessary.