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Re:Getting by on the Generosity of Strangers in Japan by corimaith on Thursday June 26, 2025 @06:32AM (#44385995)
The usual this is why we can't have nice things. Hospitality only thrives when it is not abused as an expectation rather than a privilege.
Re:Getting by on the Generosity of Strangers in Japan by anal_reactor on Thursday June 26, 2025 @07:04AM (#44386166)
The more I interact with people the less I think of an average person. Case in point - my neighborhood has a huge trash problem. People just dump it on the street. Why some communities consider that normal behavior is beyond me.
Re:Getting by on the Generosity of Strangers in Japan by graemep on Thursday June 26, 2025 @07:13AM (#44386207)
> Why some communities consider that normal behavior is beyond me.

Because they are not real communities. People living in the same place but with no sense of connection or shared identity or shared interests.

Re:Getting by on the Generosity of Strangers in Japan by mc32 on Thursday June 26, 2025 @08:39AM (#44386845)
Those humans are creatures and lack a bit of that which characterizes civilization. They exist in all countries and within all ethnicities, sometimes to varying degrees, but they are everywhere.
Re:Getting by on the Generosity of Strangers in Japan by K0balt on Thursday June 26, 2025 @09:54AM (#44387453)
A failure of inculturation. By default, humans are just clever apes. Language and culture transforms us into thinking beings that inhabit a worldview beyond the sensorium, of potentials, of possibilities, of hidden truths.

The inculturated self is meant to be in charge of the animal self. We see this in the inherent duality presented in language: “self control” implying a controller and one to be controlled; getting in in touch with yourself, implying a self and an estranged self… there are lots of these that explicitly call out the duality of the human experience.

This internal hierarchy is instilled in childhood with varying degrees of success. Some fail almost completely and live a life of reactivity, conspicuously devoid of consequential consideration. Some revert to the animal self through drug addiction. There are many maladies to describe the failure of character that is seen when inculturation breaks down.