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Re:Show HN: I'm starting a social club to solve the male lon... by Retric on Friday May 30, 2025 @12:09AM (#44132753)
Country club’s are really a subset of this kind of thing and tend to have an overly wide membership to the point where you’re unlikely to know every member. The VFW is another modern take that’s got a very different vibe.

Similarly historically it wasn’t just elitist hangouts. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Working_men's_club

Re:Show HN: I'm starting a social club to solve the male lon... by piuantiderp on Friday May 30, 2025 @01:57AM (#44133318)
You just haven't been to a good one.
Re:Show HN: I'm starting a social club to solve the male lon... by dmit on Friday May 30, 2025 @07:10AM (#44134962)
Does one need to be a true Scotsman to attend
Re:Show HN: I'm starting a social club to solve the male lon... by mrguyorama on Friday May 30, 2025 @01:47PM (#44138455)
Notably, VFWs are struggling because the Vietnam vets are not very welcoming to the War on Terror vets.

No women to blame there. What is the cause of the male loneliness epidemic then?

Re:Show HN: I'm starting a social club to solve the male lon... by BeFlatXIII on Friday May 30, 2025 @02:44PM (#44138906)
Is it resentment between draftees and volunteers?
Re:Show HN: I'm starting a social club to solve the male lon... by Sohcahtoa82 on Friday May 30, 2025 @05:23PM (#44140006)
The fact that anybody would blame women for the supposed male loneliness epidemic is just wild to me.