Re:United Airlines Lost My Friend's 10 Year Old Daughter And...
by fleitz on Tuesday August 14, 2012 @04:10AM
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I'll second this, in North America everything that is possible to make a child absolutely dependant is done. Parents who try to raise functioning adults are shunned.
There was a national outcry because someone let their 12 year old ride a subway.
You can find most of the roots of helicopter parenting in attachment parenting, the idea that a child should always be touched by their parent until they're about 5.
Re:United Airlines Lost My Friend's 10 Year Old Daughter And...
by fr0sty on Tuesday August 14, 2012 @08:58AM
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The child was 9, not 12.
http://www.creators.com/opinion/lenore-skenazy/why-i-let-my-...
Futhermore "attachment parenting" is not the antecedent to "helicopter parenting" and certainly does not require constant contact past 1 year of age much less fife.
Re:United Airlines Lost My Friend's 10 Year Old Daughter And...
by pavel_lishin on Tuesday August 14, 2012 @10:39AM
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I grew up in Moscow, before I turned ten I would regularly take the subway all the way to school and back. I find it ludicrous and offensive that some of my peers weren't allowed to walk or bike ten blocks to school in a suburban neighborhood.
Re:United Airlines Lost My Friend's 10 Year Old Daughter And...
by fleitz on Tuesday August 14, 2012 @04:25PM
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Yeah, there's a strange sense of danger in north america, my father used to play in bomb craters out front of his families' apartment.
Sucks to grow up in a town that makes ball bearings.
Re:United Airlines Lost My Friend's 10 Year Old Daughter And...
by davidw on Tuesday August 14, 2012 @04:10AM
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When I was somewhere around that age, my younger brother and I flew to Spokane from Eugene, changing planes in Portland. Granted, PDX is fairly small, but I distinctly recall them announcing the flight, and someone not coming to get us, which made me nervous. So I took my brother and we went, and everything worked out ok.
Wow. Overprotective much? At 10 I went to school by bus, alone, with 2 or 3 changes along the way (and a ~10 minutes walk between home and the bus station), total travel time was maybe 45~60mn and same thing the other way around in the evening. And I had friends boarding who took the train at the beginning and end of the week, same age, hours of travel on their own.
> Maybe it's a cultural difference and this is common in the US (is it?)
I'm not in the US, and I'd definitely consider that fine. Taking the plane is probably less common around here but considering the plane culture of the US I don't see any issue with it.
> I understand United offers a service to make this possible but it seems like a ridiculous thing for a parent to take advantage of.
1. No it's not, the whole point of the service is to use it.
2. I'm pretty sure United created the service because parents were already sending children across the country by plane alone, that's not a rare occurrence. Most children of 8 or 10 are reasonably bright and can actually take care of themselves reasonably well unless you spent 10 years making them completely dependent.