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Re:Ask HN: How do you deal with alienation? by rodrigo on Friday January 16, 2009 @10:23AM (#436707)
You're being narrow. Of course we all want people like us to talk with, but thats not the rigth attitude. Just talk with someone, try to find whats interesting about them, place yourself in his/her shoes and try to see what makes them tickle and then talk about it, youll find that you can almost always learn something.
Re:Ask HN: How do you deal with alienation? by asdflkj on Friday January 16, 2009 @08:28PM (#437608)
Sure, you can learn something, but will that something be worth the effort? That's the $64k question here, and I believe the answer for most people is "no."

Being alone sucks, but before you kill the pain with the companionship of idiots, you should ask if the cure is worse than the disease. Looking back, I regret time spent on idiots a lot more than time spent alone. YMMV, of course.