Re:Linux kernel 6.14 is a big leap forward in performance an...
by maccard on Wednesday March 26, 2025 @06:56PM
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I disagree - the harshness here is personal insults and passive-aggressiveness. That's uncalled for and definitely "toxic".
It's very possible to be assertive and shut down unconstructive discussions, as Linus has repeatedly shown. Here [0] is a great example of Linus being firm, assertive, calling someone out on their shit.
Re:Linux kernel 6.14 is a big leap forward in performance an...
by jchw on Wednesday March 26, 2025 @09:32PM
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I really regret the proliferation of terms like "toxic" to describe things as benign as this. I think it's literally recoloring people's perception of what bad communication actually looks like.
Re:Linux kernel 6.14 is a big leap forward in performance an...
by maccard on Thursday March 27, 2025 @05:31AM
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You brought the word up, not me. The tiles are simple - avoid character attacks, and don’t be passive aggressive. Be direct and firm.
Otherwise people will go off topic and take whatever meaning they want (like I did with Linus’) comment and you did the same with the word toxic, which you introduced
But I guess the line will be up to taste. I've been on the receiving end of harsher communication that I don't feel was completely uncalled for, too. I certainly can be a stubborn person and sometimes reasonable communication just isn't getting the message across. On the other hand, there are people who basically never do anything to warrant being communicated to like this. It would be ideal if everyone could communicate calmly and always get the message across, but frankly it just doesn't seem to work that way.