What do you mean? Having ROCm fused MoE and MLA kernels as a counterpart to kernels for CUDA is very useful. AMD needs to provide this if they want to keep AMD accelerators competitive with new models.
Upstreaming that might actually help researchers doing new stuff vs. the narrow demographic of people speeding LLMs on MI300X's.
I think most people don't want to have to think about vendor lock-in related bullshit. Most people just want their model to run on whatever hardware they happen to have available, don't want to have to worry about whether or not future hardware purchases will be compatible, and don't want to have to rewrite everything in a different framework.
Most people fundamentally don't care about ROCm or CUDA or OneAPI or whatever else beyond a means to an end.
Do you know what the RT in TensorRT stands for? hint: AITER has nothing to do with TensorRT.
I guess it's vibecoding "AI"...