A lot of studies have found people's perception of wealth is relative, right? Making 25% what your pee/friends make would really suck.
I think the 40k number is worth emphasizing though, not as some terrible torment but as a data point that casts light on the financials of attending law school. In terms of objectively looking at the merits of law school as an investment, a 40k salary outcome is pretty awful. The opportunity cost and direct costs (in loans) are enormous and the risk of getting the low-end outcome is pretty high. There's way, way less risky ways to make 40k, and way less costly ways to position oneself to one day have a chance at a six figure salary.
"Just getting by" and "the only way you can afford your loan burden is by taking advantage of government income-based repayment and loan forgiveness programs" is not the outcome most people expect going to a decent law school, so it's important that people hear that this happens.
Interesting - when did making 40k a year become "brutal" ? There's people doing fine on much less. Sounds more like a case of "hey I made a big scary decision - so now I'm going to blog about it so that people can validate my decision for me. In the process I'm also going to point out how even in the worst case I'd be better off than 75% of the worlds population is. ".. come on...