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Re:Ask HN: What is interviewing like now with everyone using... by znpy on Monday February 03, 2025 @07:30AM (#42917518)
> Forgive me, but I just don't see the problem here.

There is no problem. But some people will create problems out of thin air, when there is none.

Re:Ask HN: What is interviewing like now with everyone using... by apercu on Monday February 03, 2025 @06:41PM (#42925004)
100% true.

Completely unrelated, but I find that other people will create problems by making an off-colour statement, something mildly offensive, or disrespectful and then when they get a reaction they say "why are you making a problem where none exists".

DARVO/gaslighting behaviour, and I wish it was rarer than it is.