I'd love a DisplayPort KVM, but not every device that comes across my bench has a DisplayPort output, and those few that have DisplayPort but no HDMI can be accommodated with one of those commodity DisplayPort -> HDMI adapters. This situation is actually getting worse over time, not better, as many modern devices and laptops are skipping DisplayPort in favor of USB-c alt-mode.
This issue has actually been going on through a monitor change on my testbench. It has happened with a Samsung SyncMaster 204T though my KVM switch, an HP ZR24w through my KVM switch, and the ZR24w directly connected. I don't think this is an issue with the rest of my equipment.
This electrical was done about 15 years ago, by a ticketed electrician. One of those $5 plug testers indicates all is well, and I have no reason to believe there's any issue here.
By almost pure coincidence, I have an MSI PRO X870-P motherboard on order. I'm looking forward to seeing if this same 3V3 leakage issue is present on this board too.
I read the original thread but it doesn't look like you've measured the voltage at the HDMI port wrt motherboard ground. I think we're assuming it's 5 volts, but it could be higher, and it could have shorted (or weakened) a component on your motherboard. And that would explain why a 100 ohm resistor didn't give a meaningful voltage drop.
If you need an isolation solution, Amazon sells a 50ft fiber optic one way HDMI cable [2]. The thing I don't know is if there's any actual copper to provide power over the link. There are other options which transmit the HDMI signal over pure multimode fiber as well [3].
Or you can go with a DP KVM, since you're on L1T, they sell a few DP models. I have one I purchased from L1T, and I like it a lot.
Definitely though I would check out the outlets to make sure they were wired correctly. Incorrectly wired outlets because someone tried to DIY it in the US is absolutely a problem.
[1] https://www.avsforum.com/threads/hdmi-cable-backfeeding-volt...
[2] https://www.amazon.com/HDMI-FURUI-HDCP2-2-18Gbps-Subsampling...
[3] https://fibercommand.com/products/8k-fiber-plugs?gQT=1