Re:The Challenge of Making Friends as an Adult
by philwelch on Sunday July 15, 2012 @05:41PM
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It's not just a California thing. We have the exact same thing here--we call it the "Seattle freeze".
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Re:The Challenge of Making Friends as an Adult
by jlgreco on Monday July 16, 2012 @02:33AM
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Apologies, accidentally down voted you on my phone..
Anyway, having grown up on the east coast then spending time both in Seattle and back east off and on, I can vouch for the Seattle freeze being rather real.
And to a certain extent I actually find myself liking it. Moving around too much makes forming deeper relationships risky, they end up being more baggage. I see the freeze as a sort of defensive mechanism against that.