Completely agree. If we just lived in little old villages without the support systems for advanced technological systems, people like his mother would have just shrieked in pain while we sprinkled her with various herbs, and he wouldn't even have any idea of shooting someone for the unfairness, because we'd just accept our fates with aplomb.
(/s if not obvious)
Do you actually think doctors / nurses would be able to get all they need through small trades / manufacturing?
I think that knowledge and technology is much less dependent on "society" than we usually think. But of course it all becomes speculation in the end. The Romans in your example had constant assassinations of the most powerful people of their society. But I get what you mean, and of course you're mostly right.
Not that I find him a sympathetic character. But the concept of "society" is one of the most evil demons to have ever spawned.