> I also know many women who say they don't want to "do that to their bodies" so ... where is this all going.

This is the only point in reality, everything else is just fuss and excuses. Women who don't want to have children don't want them because child rearing dramatically changes their bellies and their breasts. It's vanity only. I will be down voted for writing it, but it's still the truth. Anybody is free to live believing lies, but it's in the end about not wanting to be less sexually attractive because of a child.

And it's sad really, because there are ways to deal with the bodily changes from a pregnancy.