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Re:My second year without a job by seanmcdirmid on Friday December 06, 2024 @06:00PM (#42345502)
I took a break after getting laid off from YCR (2017) and joining Google (2020). My wife just had our baby and she was a bit stir crazy, so I thought it better to focus on getting her a job first (so I would take care of the kid instead). We have a bit of redundancy now, which is useful at least (we are ok if either us loses their job, but we would definitely try to both stay working).

What they don't tell you is that employers are suspicious if you are out of the job market for more than a year. And anyways, no, it doesn't make sense to stay at home and raise your kid, just pay for the childcare and get back to work as soon as possible. And they wonder why birthrate is tanking...

Re:My second year without a job by throwaway314155 on Friday December 06, 2024 @10:23PM (#42346987)
> What they don't tell you is that employers are suspicious if you are out of the job market for more than a year

literally one of the first things "they tell you" (it's common knowledge).

Re:My second year without a job by seanmcdirmid on Saturday December 07, 2024 @01:29AM (#42347704)
I wasn’t told, or maybe didn’t take it seriously enough.
Re:My second year without a job by bowsamic on Saturday December 07, 2024 @02:19AM (#42347904)
They may be suspicious as in they ask, but as soon as you say it was to raise a child it will be fully answered without issue
Re:My second year without a job by bdangubic on Friday December 06, 2024 @10:31PM (#42347025)
can’t believe the number of comments talking like this… the only way I would work for an employer like this is if my kid and wife were hungry and I had no other choice. without my family I wod rather be homeless than work for an employer like this (and yes, they are in a majority).
Re:My second year without a job by seanmcdirmid on Saturday December 07, 2024 @11:28PM (#42355009)
My companies (YCR and then Google) have been nothing but supportive of my family. But yes, I maybe dodged many bullets in my job search.