No, it's not a contradiction. The criminal behavior arises from males not being able to control themselves and using force to get what they want. Fathers put boys in their place and they learn to respect authority. Mothers are there to cuddle and pamper their children and this is horrible for boys and their development as dangerous grown males.

what makes you think that women don't know how to put men in their place?

Poor results, I just wouldn't phrase it like who you responded to or as "putting men in their place", especially given the context was about boys and not men. Putting "men" in their place as an adult woman can sometimes be physically dangerous. And it's not clear to me how effective it would be at that point of their (the mans) development.

It's also not clear to me at all that the person you are responding to is correct about mothering being about pampering or whatever. You could easily ascribe a tendency like that to the higher likelihood for single mothers to also be more stressed or less well off and with less time to invest in doing much more than trying to placate the child in the quickest way possible. Plenty of mothers that don't pamper and fathers that do, so that claim needs a citation I would think.

> It's also not clear to me at all that the person you are responding to is correct about mothering being about pampering or whatever.

The word they were looking for is "coddle".

They don't understand what it means to be physically dangerous.

Preferring a bear over a man?

This reads like a parody of 1950s child rearing.

amazing, right??!

Look up the stats on criminals and single mothers.

Why a father can't cuddle and pumper their boys?