What does this have to do with entitlement though?
en·ti·tle·ment/enˈtītlmənt/ Noun: The fact of having a right to something. The amount to which a person has a right.
Usually this is applied to someone that believes they are entitled to something. Food, housing..,
I don't see anything these jerk programmers are thinking they are entitled too.
Frankly this isn't new or unique to technology, these people crop up everywhere humans do. Think unapproachable meat head at the gym. What's unique to technology is that it's "ok" or perceived as socially acceptable for technologists to behave this way. It's not.
She closes with (paraphrasing and generalizing) since mainstream society at large thinks its acceptable (if only to be avoided by non-technically inclined people) we need to change the attitude ourselves. From this the technology field will advance with the huge increase in potential talent pool.