A lonely man in his 30s found community in an unlikely place: spin class

Re:A lonely man in his 30s found community in an unlikely pl... by AbstractH24 on Tuesday September 17, 2024 @07:12AM (#41566433)

I enjoy cycling, long rides upstate here in nyc.

But I’ve never understood how it can be a social thing, as you are on a bike isolated from other. It feels like the epitome of being alone with my thoughts in the woods, not interacting with others in real life or electronically.

I know people do it and I keep meaning to try, but part of the reason I never get around to it is I’m not quite sure I understand how it would work.

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Re:A lonely man in his 30s found community in an unlikely pl... by freejazz on Tuesday September 17, 2024 @01:50PM (#41570538)

It's really simple, you ride with others instead of just by yourself.

> as you are on a bike isolated from other

No, you aren't. Maybe on a climb.

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Re:A lonely man in his 30s found community in an unlikely pl... by jerlam on Tuesday September 17, 2024 @02:05PM (#41570724)

The real social part of cycling (and most athletic activities) is the pre-ride and post-ride hangout. It's usually not the riding part.

But on the ride itself, social rides usually involve being in very close proximity (handlebars only a few inches away from each other), and it's normal to strike up a conversation.

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