All due respect, that's missing the problem. He's trying to figure out who he should call.

Find 10-30 hosting providers; call each one and ask a) where they colo and b) if they can offer direct connect.

Don't want to waste your time? Hire it out to TaskRabbit or IamExec. Most places are not going to advertise it as a feature, as the market isn't that large for people who want dedicated equipment with a provider not Amazon, but still want direct access to Amazon AWS services from that dedicated hardware.