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Re:Repair and Remain: How to do the slow, hard, good work of... by jimbokun on Monday August 12, 2024 @01:56PM (#41227377)
Maybe your ex-wife was the one who needed to read this article.
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Re:Repair and Remain: How to do the slow, hard, good work of... by scarecrowbob on Monday August 12, 2024 @02:29PM (#41227743)
It took me a long time to be able to be thankful that my partners didn't perpetually try to fix the structurally unsound relationships in either of my marriages. I can put up with about anything, in a sense. I am grateful they could not.

I spent about 20 years in those two relationships, and it wasn't until I got out that I realized how broken all that was.

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