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Re:Starting Hospice by smogcutter on Monday August 05, 2024 @10:53AM (#41161931)
I think it’s worth drawing a distinction between guilt, which can be positive, and shame, almost never. Guilt is feeling badly because you know you’ve done wrong. Shame is feeling badly because other people know you’ve done wrong.
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Re:Starting Hospice by mjdiloreto on Monday August 05, 2024 @11:13AM (#41162115)
I still feel shame can be noble. To try to live up to the example of others and feel ashamed that you are not anywhere near their greatness. Not guilty, because you have not done wrong, but shame, because you are not enough compared to another.
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