As an aside, I wish we would call all of this stuff pseudo intelligence rather than artificial intelligence
Are LLMs human? No. Can they do everything humans do? No. But they can do a large enough subset of things that until now nothing but a human could do that we have no choice but to call it "thinking". As Hofstadter says - if a system is isomorphic to another one, then its symbols have "meaning", and this is indeed the definition of "meaning".
You also indirectly answered my initial question -- so thanks!
I don't disagree they produce astonishing responses but the nuance of why it's producing that output matters to me.
For example, with regard to social mores, I think a good way to summarize my hang up is that my understanding is LLMs just pattern match their way to approximations.
That to me is different from actually possessing an understanding, even though the outcome may be the same.
I can't help but draw comparisons to my autistic masking.
I think that's a perfect description by the way, I'm going to steal it.