The problem with the parent's interpretation of my original comment is the binary classification of "sides" when I was making a general observation of the rubber band like social dynamics that comes when the stakes are large and exist under threat.

I am cis in category, but my gender unicorn would provide a more nuanced story. I am an advocate and ally, but I am also a scientist who is preparing to do some research on the intersection of autism and gender diversity...a direction I never expected to take, but the data led me there. I'd love to write to you somehow and get your perspective on my project with D.Strang. If willing to write, please at: jk i le e at uc davis ignore spaces in address for spam