I have one remaining issue though, and it appears to be with mpv, but maybe you have dealt with it before. No matter how much focus stealing protection I place on the mpv window in kwin, nor using the `--focus-on=never` argument with mpv, stops mpv from stealing focus when it launches. Any ideas? Otherwise I might try your idea about piping a playlist to mpv.
hmm maybe not: https://github.com/mpv-player/mpv/issues/9064
edit: I just verified it is working fine on X11 (wanted to make sure I wasn't mis-remembering--but it is very obvious when something steals focus because I use the Dim Inactive desktop effect with a very high setting). I'm using ontop=yes as mentioned before. On Fedora 39 with my setup mpv does not steal focus when launching/switching videos. I did notice some weird behavior with nomachine before but after setting Focus Protection to Force High for nxplayer.bin I haven't noticed it again.
KWin version: 5.27.11
If this isn't working in Wayland surely this should be considered a Wayland/mpv bug?--just one more reason for me to delay trying WaylandI'll see what I can do to debug the issue, but otherwise, thanks for your help, I might try your playlist idea in the meantime, it's arguably closer to my desired behaviour anyway.