So the answer is, if you could hold the ISS stationary without falling, people in it would feel almost as much gravity. You would have to go much higher than the ISS to feel weightless without orbiting/falling.
Assuming people feel weightless at 1m/s2 or less, you can solve for that! And the answer is 13,600 km.
The centripetal force question is a little more challenging, but still in the realm of algebra. The complicated part is setting up the problem and understanding where the forces are coming from and if/how they cancel each other.
You have to get pretty far away to experience true "weightlessness".
https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-acceleration-due-to-gravit...
At the ISS, the extra distance from the center of the earth is minimal compared to the radius of the earth itself. Therefore, there wouldn't be a great difference.
As for the centrifugal force from the Earth's rotation, Wikipedia puts it at about 0.3% (which, added to the effect of the Earth's bulge, means you feel a total of 0.5% less weight at the equator than at the poles).
Considering the same question for geostationary orbits had me confused for a moment and then I realised we are not in a fixed location relative to the Earth, thanks to the Earth's spin. I wonder what extra percentage weight we would feel if it weren't spinning.