Also, our defaults are opposite of safe (most of the languages are still mutable by default, rigorous type systems wildly unpopular, there is a straightforward way to concatenate strings inside a query etc), our disaster prevention tools and practices seem most often to be targeted at symptoms instead of the causes (god forbid we rethink our collective ways and create/adopt tools that are much harder to use incorrectly), and all of this keeps happening because there is no pressure for it stop. What’s the incentive to?

I don’t think that there is a room for a meaningful and honest discussion about individuals in these circumstances.