No, it's not like this everywhere. Wow, 2010 to 2015 was an amazing time for me. I was in a new branch of an existing, profitable company, doing a greenfield project that created a new, profitable line of business, working with a small team, doing coding and design that implemented a solution that solved real problems for real people.

That job didn't start getting "why bother" until 2020 or so.

Companies are only good places to work until they're not. When they become not good places, it's time to move on. But there are still decent places, so keep looking.