I don't think it took a lot of persuasion to make women want things like money, and the things that can be bought with money. Those aren't really "male values". They're just things that women were forbidden from.

Things like relationships and community wellbeing should be human values, not female values. Men relied on women to perform them, as part of keeping them out of other occupations.

The human race won't go extinct as long as the replacement rate is above zero. Society and culture will indeed have to adapt to the altered age demographics, but that doesn't strike me as a bad thing. Certainly better than placing the onus on all women to maintain an arbitrary population size.